A good man is hard to find, or so I’ve heard. I don’t “know” very many guys, but I watch them, and I believe that it would be hard for me to find anyone like Jeff, and I think others would agree with me there. Guys like Jeff are few and far between.
If I was looking for a guy, it would be hard to find one who was quiet and had peace. Someone who is supportive, loyal, giving, caring, committed, honest, responsible, and selfless, who enjoys doing the things I do, who wants to get married, and have kids, and home school. Someone who can tolerate a girl who is quiet and boring most of the time and is loud and obnoxious the rest of the time, someone who can handle me reading my Arthur books, just for fun. Who won’t think I’m crazy for liking (and wanting) kids. Basically, someone who can tolerate a girl who has mental problems. :-p
Jeff is at peace pretty much all the time; it doesn’t really matter what is going on around him. He’s a quiet person, most of the time, like me. He doesn’t really get loud and obnoxious; he has a quiet spirit. He is there for me, ready to support me whenever I need. It doesn’t matter how big or small of a problem I have. It doesn’t matter what I need–Jeff is willing to give it to me, whether that’s a shoulder to cry on, money, or just someone to talk to…he’s there! He’s very trustworthy, if he says he’s going to do something, he will.
He’s a very committed person…I’ve seen it in his work and what he does there, in his school, and what he chooses to do with his time. I’ve also seen it in the way he treats me, interacts with me, and the way he interacts with others. He is also responsible, and he’s the most selfless person I know; you can ask most people who know him and they will tell you that. He’s not a little kid, and he’s not going to hurt me. I honestly believe that.
